The Rules of Fighting

Not Only Hurting Yourself

Fighting is something that most of us strive to avoid, but in the end arguments will happen. Sometimes arguments are a good thing and can really uncover some great truth into the others prospective.  There is just certain ways you should argue with others to make sure it’s productive and no one gets hurt.

The most common type of arguments is with a loved one. This could be your wife/husband, brother/sister, father/mother, or child.  It seems the ones we love the most are the ones we hurt the most.

In our lives we have people we truly love and know better than anyone else.  These are the people we lash out on the most. Our loved ones are the ones we know how to truly push their buttons and go after when we are upset. One little annoying thing they do can happen on the wrong day and then it happens. Full scale argument with no end insight. The ending, someone hurt and upset, all because you had a bad day with someone to unleash on. That one little thing they said or did, was that one little excuse to let go of your stress of the day.

This is when it becomes very important before something like this happens. Is to remember keep your cool! Don’t attack a person for x y or z, instead if you are in a bad mood give a warning.  If that doesn’t work and that person is pushing remember to keep the cool.

In arguments you should follow some basic guidelines. Number one, never resort to name calling to the others involved.  Number two, don’t use curse words ever, no matter how much you want to don’t! Number three, never scream at the others involved, raising your voice a little if needed, but try not to. Number four, never ever storm away and slam doors! Finally, number five, probably the most important rule there. Never let the sun set on a friend (never go to bed mad).

If you do any of the above, you will end up taking a simple argument to a full fight! This could leave to heartache, bitter feelings, and words that were never meant to be said. Once those words leave your mouth, they can never be taken back no matter how hard  you try. Once those words or actions are stated, they are etched in memory and sometimes to hard to come back to.

These words have advice have been pass down from my parents to myself and my wife on both sides. This is why we stay successful, because of the hard work of how to maintain communication. Everyone and anyone can do this right. Just takes time to understand how.

Even if the darkest hours, keeping your calm is beyond key in this Savage World, that you are no longer living in, but beginning to own!


About J F Savage
James Savage is a young business owner in the city of Lexington, Kentucky. In 2006, James earned his bachelor's degree in Communications from the University of Cincinnati. Two days after he graduated, James moved down to Lexington, KY as a business partner for Savage Syndications. Here we are years later and James is becoming a force in the business world. He is now CFO and partner of the company. Not many can do what he can do with list building and client relations. Also James was married to college sweet heart Alyssa in August 2008. The happy couple is working hard on making the house perfect and making sure the two puppies are always happy.

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