Fear leads to

Fear Leads to Hate, Hate leads to Anger, and Anger leads to Sufffering..

A wise little green man once said, “Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suffering.”  The sad part is how true this quote is. You ever notice when you get scared, you get mad and lash out at the closest ones to you, this then leads down the path of suffering, not just for you but the others you showcased your anger to.

Fear, fear is a living beast that lives in all of us. Somewhere in the back of our mind, the fear demon is sitting, sitting in worry. Something is always out there that scares the crap out of us. For some it is the thought of failure or another emotional thought and for others it’s the thought of losing everything. Either way you look at it, the bravest man/woman will hold some sort of fear in the back of their mind. When they hit a certain point, the fear demon breaks down the walls and starts to take over the person, lashing out at everything dear.

The trick to controlling the fear is understanding your fears. For example, myself, I am scared of being forgotten and left behind from everyone I love and all my friends. Now, do I ever showcase that fear? Not much, I understand it is there and work hard on never bringing it to the surface. How you ask? It’s a hard trick, but I work on it to avoid bringing out my anger. Just focus on keeping my friends close, by reaching out and doing all I can for them.

Others have fears like money issues, work issues, etc. can come to the surface. Watch someone who gets fired, they are pretty upset aren’t they? They get mad at their old boss, people around them for having a job still, etc. Now what is really going on their mind? The fear of losing a pay check, their everyday is changing, needing to find a new job, how are they going to make the money they need, etc. These are all reasonable fears, but it’s not okay for them to lash out at everyone there and their family members.

The trick to controlling this fear is to relax, take a deep breath and accept what just happen. Understand that the others around you didn’t cause the pain, tell them your scared and want to just talk about it. No! Don’t yell at them, just talk small voices and explain what is going on.

Yelling and getting mad does nothing but bring suffering to all around you. Do you really want to be the cause of issues and suffering to the ones you love? Probably not, just remember they love you and want to understand how they can help. Talk out the issues, don’t hold it in, don’t give into the fear anymore. Beat the fear by reaching out to the hand that is waiting for you!

Beating your fear is key in this Savage World; that you are no longer just living in, but beginning to own!

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About J F Savage
James Savage is a young business owner in the city of Lexington, Kentucky. In 2006, James earned his bachelor's degree in Communications from the University of Cincinnati. Two days after he graduated, James moved down to Lexington, KY as a business partner for Savage Syndications. Here we are years later and James is becoming a force in the business world. He is now CFO and partner of the company. Not many can do what he can do with list building and client relations. Also James was married to college sweet heart Alyssa in August 2008. The happy couple is working hard on making the house perfect and making sure the two puppies are always happy.

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