Your Words

Words You Should Never Use

Your words are powerful, believe it or not. People read into everything you say, write, post, or even don’t say. Sticks and stones may break my bones, but your words will kill someone. Think about all the times you said something you regretted or maybe something you said that didn’t realize the outcome.

Friendships, relationships, etc are destroyed by words alone. Words can be also your body language and how we express ourselves to who we are talking to. How we communicate as a society is not just our words, but with our movements, tone, eyes, and yes even our social media page.

Social media you ask? How can that be hurtful? Well, let’s go use an example of something that seem to always happen on Facebook. You get mad at a spouse, post it on Facebook how much you hate him or her. Now everyone knows all your dirty secrets and the next time people see you out with them, they wonder if they should like them or not. This is hurtful, cause the other involved who was slammed, is now being judge over and over again by what you said about them so publicly.Also your friends are confused if they should still like them or hate them.

The trick is just be nice, don’t use hateful words, curse words, etc. just talk it out. Yes you will disagree with people and you will voice your thoughts to them. Though, you can do this without talking down to them or being hateful. You don’t need to yell to get your point across. Impossible you think huh? Well, if you think then explain how my wife and I have never had a yelling match ever. True story. Yes, harsh discussions, but never yelling matches, degrading words, or mean arguments. It’s the rules of disagreeing. Never slam doors, never walk away mad, never let the sunset on a friend, never bring up the past, never use bad language, and never say words you would regret.

Remember your words show who you are and what you are really thinking if you are honest. People know when you are fake too and talk about things just to make someone happy. Express your thoughts and what you disagree on, but listen to their thoughts, be respect of them and they to you. If they can’t argue in the rules, then the best is to walk away and not let get pride in the way.

Stop being mean to each other world, just be nice and respectful. It’s a new world filled with so many different ways to reach out to each other. Just think before you speak, stop being so hateful, and stop the bad language. Also most importantly watch what you are saying on your Facebook page or twitter. It’s time to be nice in our updates, not hateful.

Watch your words in this Savage World; that you are no longer just living in, but beginning to own!

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About J F Savage
James Savage is a young business owner in the city of Lexington, Kentucky. In 2006, James earned his bachelor's degree in Communications from the University of Cincinnati. Two days after he graduated, James moved down to Lexington, KY as a business partner for Savage Syndications. Here we are years later and James is becoming a force in the business world. He is now CFO and partner of the company. Not many can do what he can do with list building and client relations. Also James was married to college sweet heart Alyssa in August 2008. The happy couple is working hard on making the house perfect and making sure the two puppies are always happy.

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