The World of Joy

Head on!!

To many times we are stuck in the right now and how things are. We listen way too much on what the world tells how we should act, dress, talk, etc. We listen to all our negative friends on the Facebook society and not see them in real life.  It’s time to start becoming deaf and blind to what some of the world tells you and listen to more positive aspects of your world.

Take this writer for example, he use to be a guy who was stuck in his own depression, worried about what everyone thought of him and always wanted to be the best. Thought it was cool to be depressed, because at the time movies and shows were all about the drama, guess that still goes on today (Thank you Twilight). It wasn’t till I learned that no one cares if your sad or upset for a long period of time. Sure there are times a loss of a loved one or friend, injury, etc. But usually if you are sad or acting negative, people don’t want to be around you, period.

If you stay in this mood of depression anti social and ignoring the hands that are out there, because you are just too cool and depressed for that, friendship will be lost. Instead you need to turn off what the world is telling you to be, find your inner joy. Are you going through a rough time? Find a way to make it better. In this process you better yourself and it’s not an overnight fix. Friends are there to help if you are willing to listen. On the flip side if you continue to be down and don’t want to pull yourself up, chances are you are going to drive people away.

Think about this, you push friends away who try to help and always been there, for other things like booze or parties, etc. Escaping the demons with outside sources that are a temporary fix don’t help. When you come back to Earth you will feel just as bad if not worse. The thing is you become the problem when you refuse the hands, when you refuse to pick yourself up. It’s when you slam the door on the negative attitudes and start focusing on making it better that’s when you start to solve the problem.

This writer understands the issues of depression been there a few times in my life. It happens and it’s nothing to be ashamed about, but talk and ask for advice when you need it. Don’t go around posting on Facebook how you can’t sleep or you hate your life or this person. Just focus on finding the issues and working your way out of it. Help comes in the forms of human face to face or phone to phone interaction. Nothing is solved by airing out your problems via social media.

Dealing with your problems face first is key in this Savage World; that you are no longer just living in, but beginning to own!

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About J F Savage
James Savage is a young business owner in the city of Lexington, Kentucky. In 2006, James earned his bachelor's degree in Communications from the University of Cincinnati. Two days after he graduated, James moved down to Lexington, KY as a business partner for Savage Syndications. Here we are years later and James is becoming a force in the business world. He is now CFO and partner of the company. Not many can do what he can do with list building and client relations. Also James was married to college sweet heart Alyssa in August 2008. The happy couple is working hard on making the house perfect and making sure the two puppies are always happy.

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