The Curtain is Down, the Drama is Over

The curtain is closed!

The other day I was enjoying a live show from this band I really enjoy. The crowd was small, but it was supposed to be and it was an all ages show. It wasn’t the band that made the biggest impact there, it was the drama that was aired out publicly in the parking lot afterwards. A son and mother were having a yelling match, the son was scolding his mother in broad daylight, in front of about twenty people, telling her that it’s all her fault.  The men in the crowd drew close to make sure the son didn’t do anything stupid as the bartender ran out to end the drama. Moments later the mother left with her head down and the son walked cocky towards a group of people who shook their head. End of the story, the scene was straight from a movie, but not with a good ending. There were no hugs, no resolution, just a son and mother with issues for the whole world to see, with the son looking like a jerk.

Maybe, I was lucky and didn’t have mommy issues or daddy issues. Maybe I took all the things that could have held me down and used them as fuel to become better and not worried about the past. People, parents, and friends aren’t perfect, they make mistakes and probably don’t realize it at the time.  The end of the day you can’t sit in a corner and blame everyone else for your problem, you are there and it may stink, but it’s your job to get out of the problem. If they caused it, find ways to get out of it and move on. You can’t live your whole life in hate and drama, what does it do for you? Nothing. Yes, I may not of had parent issued, but was bullied and teachers who told me I would never be anything, etc. I used every ounce of energy to become the best person I can be without being a bitter man..

What does leaving in the past do? Keeps you stuck behind the rest of the world. Yes the past is great to remember to know where you come from, great memories, things that failed, things that you learned, etc. Though once the day ends, the curtain is over on that day and it’s time to move on. People are going to hurt you, people may say things in jealous, rage, hate, etc. It’s your job to get out of that issue and yes, I am aware some issues are harder than most to get out, those cases are not the issue today. Trick is you need to remember who you are, build on that for the present and future. Show the world the positive amazing force you have become! Don’t dwell on your pain and sorrow, that just gets you stuck in a dark corner.

Remember that you are an awesome person, no matter what someone else said or did to you. Having issues with you parents, talk to them, don’t yell and don’t do it publicly. Issues with friends or family, tell them, don’t hold it in, but don’t yell and if they start getting mad, end the convo and tell we can talk when they are ready to. Don’t let others bring you down and don’t let others run your life. Drama is overrated, but thanks to Facebook, MTV reality shows, etc. we think drama is great now! Because it’s cool to live life-like a gangsta, being a teen mom, having issues with people, etc. It’s just time people drop the curtain and end the everyday drama and move on.

Life is too short for drama, make it a positive day every day from here on out and if someone tries to bring you down. Tell em no and move on, no one should ever steal your sunshine.

Striving for a drama free life is key  in this Savage World; that you are no longer just living in, but beginning to own!


All About the Sun Today

Opening up!

Truth be told, I really want some rain here in Lexington and the past two days it just looked like was going to open at any minute and sadly it never did. Today is a different story, the sun is high in the sky this morning beaming down and not holding back.  Today just feels right, like the past few days the sun was fighting to come out, but the clouds were blocking its view.

Lets talk about the sun versus the clouds today and how it goes with your everyday life. Think of it this way, the sun is bright, makes you happy, and wants you to be out in it. The clouds and rain, want you to hide inside, can bring you down, and just can get you into a bad mood. Like the sun, when you are down, your brightness tries to break out of your depressing clouds. May not seem like it at times, but your sun is wanting to shine every moment it can

Clouds in your head are the fog that runs in during the morning, you really don’t know where it came from or why it’s there. All you want to truly do is get out of the funk the clouds put you in, so you can have a good day. Trick is you have to fight through the clouds with your sun, allow it to break free. Clear your mind of the troubles you have, or work through the issues so you can break free from it all.  Some days you have to work through the issues, other days you just need to  get the sun to come out a little bit more than usual. Once it’s out though, the world does seem brighter.

Not letting the clouds win is key in this Savage World; that you are no longer just living in, but beginning to own!

Sunny Monday

Look what you done to poor Monday.. 😦

Good morning to all my favorite readers out there in cyberspace. I don’t know what it is like in your place in the world, but today here in my world it is sunny. This is a pretty big week for some people, some would even say it’s a super week. That’s right, the Superbowl is right around the corner and it’s time to kick off the Superbowl week with a bang!

Monday’s who loves em? I DO!!!! You should too! No, stop crying on Facebook about how Monday’s are so bad and how you hate getting up for it. Why do you hate Monday? Because you’re weekend ended and you had to leave the house for work? Okay, that doesn’t sound bad. In fact it sounds good, because you got to get up today, get dress, and out the door to start a new work week. For some that is a major dream and desire right now.

Even if you are looking at rain or snow right now here on Monday, ignore it and find the sun. The trick with Monday’s is as I stated in past blogs, the trick is to embrace it and have this mark how your week will be. If you start it off with a bang each and every week, you know what? The rest of your week should be pretty darn good.

Now, I know this maybe a lot of energy for you early on a Monday, but you may need it. No don’t send over  a message about how much you hate Mondays, because none of them will ever make sense to me. The thing is everyone complains about Monday and really it’s just like a Tuesday or a Thursday. Is it Friday or Saturday, no, but it is a day that helps us start the week off right.

Monday also gives us meaning to get up and do our job. This allows us to be productive citizens in our respected countries. We get up, get ready, go to school or work, and do what we need to do to make the world better. It’s the sunrise of the week and it should be seen as beautiful, because it is your day to shine!

Having a sunny Monday every Monday is key in this Savage World; that you are no longer just living in, but beginning to own!

Enjoying the Sun

Spread your arms wide open!

In 2011, here in the city I live of Lexington, KY it was named the wettest year on record. That being said, we didn’t see a lot of sun this past year, though we had some beautiful days. It was a trick that we had to do to find the sun through the rain clouds, it was called just finding the sun.

Like the wettest year on record history for Kentucky, many people see every year as their rainfall. It’s sometimes hard to see the sun out there in this crazy world. If you are one of those people who can’t seem to grab the sun everyday. When the sun comes for you, enjoy it! Spread your arms out wide and let the sun’s warmth consume you.

As much as I can tell you how to always find the sun, sometimes it truly is hard when you are slammed with bad weather all the time. It may seem that the rain just doesn’t stop, but it will. Trust me, as you embrace the beautiful weather when it comes this life will become easier. As you embrace the sun, you will notice the rain clouds go further away with each passing day.

Just think if you embrace the good aka the sun, your life can be so much easier. Instead of embracing the drama of the rain, allow the sun to shine for you. Embrace it and take control of your weather!

Embracing the sun is key in this Savage World; that you are no longer just living in, but beginning to own!

The Rain Will End

The Sun Is Always Shining!

At times it seems the rain is never-ending, the down pour just keeps coming with small moments of sun, followed by more rain. It’s hard when it seems like the world never stops raining on you. How do we face these storms?  When will they end? Why does it happen to you?

All of these are normal questions, the storms make us feel broken, lost, confused, and sometimes blind to the positive affects the rain will bring you. Yes, it is ugly out right now for you maybe, but that’s okay. Things do get better and you will get better, trust me on this.

The thing is, the rain is only here for a moment’s time, yes it seems like it will rain forever, but it has to end one day. The trick is to see the world as a sunny place, find the rays of sunshine hiding in the clouds. They are there and when you find them they will start clearing away the rest of the rain clouds.

Look at the sun as towering over your rain clouds, you may not see it, but the sun is always there just hiding some times behind the clouds. You just have to see that small little ray peaking through, that ray of sunshine is meant for you. Embrace it, build on it, and help it break through clouds that cover its beauty.

The rain will always come and go, but the sun will never leave you fully. The sun is right there and never leaving your side. Even through all the dark clouds, it still shines bright. Just remember that when it rains, the sun is hiding up there for you, waiting to be found.

Finding the sun on a raining day is key in this Savage World; that you are no longer just living in, but beginning to own!


When The Rain Cloud Forms

Is it coming down?

Every once in a while a little rain cloud forms above our head that wants to follow us around for a bit. These days can seem like dark, lonely, and scary. This little rain cloud seems to only be on you and everyone else seems to have the sun over them.

Just doesn’t sound fair when your world is being rained on and everyone else has sunny days. How do we overcome these rain clouds and fight through the storm? Why does this happen to us? How can we fix it? Is that the questions you are asking when it happens?

To answer all the question in one simple way, this happens to everyone.  Nobody can escape a raining day, no matter how positive and nice we are about the world. Rainy days will come and rainy days will go. It’s just how we handle it.

Here’s the major trick to deal with the rain, have an umbrella ready for when it hits. Best way to avoid the rain when it’s over your head. Easy answer, but probably thinking what do I mean in general. The thing is the rain is going to come and if you just see it coming then place your umbrella up. This way, yes the rain is still there, but you can keep it from damaging you.

Trick is that if you know that you’re in a rain cloud, then you have to fight to get out of it and stay dry. Don’t allow the pain of the rain to come down and ruin everything you have going on. If you do, then the rain only gets harder and will leave you lonely, wet, and cold.

Instead remember one thing, the sun is coming. That’s right there is always an opening in any storm that opens to the beautiful sun. Sometimes, you will see a beautiful rainbow to. It’s like being stuck 45 minutes in rainy traffic, to have a beautiful walk in the sun as you reach your destination.

Learning how to handle your rain is key in this Savage World; that you are no longer just living in, but beginning to own!